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Unburdened Growth: The Nectarine Tree's Life Advice - Less Is More


This morning, as I strolled into my backyard to confront an overproducing nectarine tree, little did I know it had some quirky life coaching tips to share. Yes, you heard that right - a tree with life wisdom! So, put on your fruit-picking hat, and let's discover what this tree can teach us about embracing change and finding balance.


The Overcommitted Tree:

At first glance, it's easy to assume a tree would love to produce tons of fruit, but oh boy, was my nectarine tree feeling the pressure!

Nectarine tree with sagging branches due to overbearing unripe fruit

It seemed determined to win the "World Record for Most Fruits." But as you've probably guessed, it couldn't handle all that hustle. Sound familiar? It' just like us when we try to tackle the universe in one go. So, I had a heart-to-heart with my tree (yep, I actually talked to it... again), explaining that sometimes, less is more. It's all about finding the sweet spot between ambition and sanity. And you know what? The tree seemed to nod in agreement, ooooor maybe it was just the breeze playing along!


The Art of Prioritizing:

Now this isn't the first time we've had to chat, I plucked some unripened fruits about a month ago too. I knew the tree needed to channel its energy into a select few juicy nectarines, instead of trying to be an entire orchard by itself. That's like trying to juggle a million tasks at once - a recipe for disaster! So, let's take inspiration from this tree's journey of prioritization. When we pick a couple of goals to nurture, we give ourselves the chance to thrive and relish the fruits of our labor. Plus, fewer goals mean fewer mental gymnastics!


Embracing Change by Letting Go:

Imagine this magical moment: I'm pulling off five of the six unripe fruits all trying to grow in the same spot on a tiny branch, explaining to a tree that it's trying to do too much at once. I step back to look at the progress - the tree's branches have actually lifted back up with newfound vigor.

A young praying mantis on a leaf

Well maybe not vigor, but the point here is that the branches weren't touching the ground anymore. It was like witnessing

a tree-sized sigh of relief! Which got me thinking, sometimes, we need to shed some unnecessary burdens to feel lighter and happier. When we release what holds us down, we create space for growth and joy. So, my friend, remember to celebrate your wins, big or small, and recognize that letting go can be just as rewarding as taking on new challenges!



Who knew that a nectarine tree could offer such profound life coaching wisdom? I certainly didn't. As we journey through life, let's adopt a leaf from this tree's book (pun intended!). Embrace change, focus on what truly matters, and relish your triumphs along the way. And the next time you savor a delectable nectarine, remember the invaluable life lessons from our backyard guru. Try to remember that sometimes, the most unexpected sources can inspire us to grow and thrive. And if you ever feel overwhelmed, just picture that tree nodding along to your struggles - it might bring a smile to your face!

Here's to the growth we find in picking what we can handle and living life in the sweet spot!

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